Sunday, February 23, 2014

Loving your enemies is exhausting

Epiphany 7
February 23, 2014
Matthew 5:38-48

This past week I received an e-mail from one of my best friends, Kirsten, who is a fellow pastor and missionary at St. Andrew’s Lutheran Church and Refugee Service in Cairo, Egypt.  In her e-mail, she reflected on the violence that has been going on in Egypt, violence that almost forced the ELCA to hold her back from going over there this August, even though her husband was due in Cairo to begin teaching at the American University in Cairo.  The last time this Gospel text came around, three years ago, there were peaceful protests taking place in Cairo.  Folks demanding that President Mubarak step down during a wave of peaceful revolutions that happened in the Arab Spring.  But now things are not so peaceful.  Here is a portion of what Kirsten wrote to me this week.

“There are days when I want to shout and scream, "Why? What do you want to accomplish?  Do you really think this is working?"  It is so frustrating and sad to see the violence that has become regular news.  My Twitter feed on Saturday morning almost always includes the "body count" from Friday protests around the country.  In that case, it's primarily State Security Forces firing live ammunition at Muslim Brotherhood supporters, who continue to insist that Mohammed Morsi is the legitimate president and should be returned to power.  In the last 6 weeks or so, there have been more attacks from Islamist groups targeting State Security (police and army) posts, vehicles, members, etc.  There was a horrible bombing in Mansoura on December 24, where the city's security building was attacked by a suicide bomber, killing 16 and injuring well over 100 people.  On January 24, a bomb exploded outside a security building in central Cairo, killing 4 people and injuring several others.  In that case, the bomb exploded early in the morning (6:30 AM on a Friday, which is like 6:30 on a Sunday in the States) so there were not many people out and it could have been so much worse.  Sunday, a tour bus was attacked in the South Sinai (coming from St. Catherine's monastery), killing 3 tourists and the driver.  All of these attacks have been perpetrated by Ansar Bait al-Maqdis, an al-Queda linked Islamist group based in the Sinai.  It is horribly disturbing and so very, very sad.
Granted, I am not Muslim and, while improving, my Arabic is pitiful, so my Egyptian contacts tend to be well educated, English speakers, and are mostly Christian.  But among the Egyptians I do know, everyone reiterates, this is not the country we know and love.  The violence & hatred are limited to such a small, but loud, powerful, and well-armed group, who are making life tense for everyone, Christian, Muslim, Egyptian, and foreigner.  The Egyptians I have met are kind, generous, and want peace in their country.  While there are sometimes tensions between Christians and Muslims…for the most part, people seem to generally want to mind their own business, go about their lives, and do what they need to do to care for their families”

“You have heard it said ‘An eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth.’ But I say to you, Do not resist an evil doer. But if anyone strikes you on the right cheek, turn the other also;”  In a continuation of exhortations that began last week, Jesus has changed focus from relationships with families, friends and spouses, to relationships with our adversaries.  And he begins with a very familiar passage that originated in the Code of Hammurabi but also found its way into the Hebrew Scriptures.  “An eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth, a hand for a hand, a foot for a foot,” (Exodus 21:24).  It sounds harsh, but this rule was actually put in place to limit one’s ability to retaliate for a wrong done to them and made sure that the punishment for a crime committed was not outlandish in comparison to the crime committed. In other words, it was a law written to prevent incidents like what has happened in Florida under the poorly written Stand Your Ground Law which has gotten so much press with the deaths of Trayvon Martin, Jordan Davis and Chad Oulson.  But Jesus takes eye for an eye and tooth for a tooth one step further…’do not resist an evil doer.  But if anyone strikes you on the right cheek, turn the other also. If someone sues you for your coat, give them your cloak as well, and if anyone forces you to go one mile, go also the second mile.” 
Now, taken the wrong way, this text has been used in some inappropriate ways.  Some have used it against people who are being abused, that if they continue to turn the other cheek, they will eventually be delivered from their abuser and their reward will be great.  Others have used this passage to convince people to accept where the injustices of life have left them, because God put them there for a reason.  I’m convinced that this is not what Jesus is saying.  If this was what Jesus intended by turn the other cheek, the concept of non-violent protests to stand up against injustice for the oppressed, like those of Martin Luther King, Jr. and the Arab Spring would not have been inspired by these words of Jesus. 
Jesus’ words to the people on the mount are revolutionary and they are inspiring.  I believe that what Jesus is trying to teach the people is that when faced with situations where injustice and oppression are bearing down, don’t let anyone take your dignity, humanity, or your child of God-ness away from you.  Instead, show them by your peaceful actions that you will not sit idly by while you or your neighbors are being trampled upon. 
Jesus doesn’t stop there, however.  He goes yet another step further. “You have heard it said ‘love your neighbors and hate your enemies.’ But I say to you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.” So not only are we to not retaliate against those who oppress us, we are supposed to love them, too, and include them in our prayers.  Now, gathering for peaceful protests Tahrir Square is one thing, it’s an entirely different thing to summon up enough love and prayers for our enemies…and yet, this is what Jesus is asking us to do. 
If you took a poll of Egyptians today, I am guessing that very few would admit to having prayed for Al-Queda…I doubt that many members of the Muslim brotherhood would admit to having prayed for the State Security forces, and so on.  And if you were talk to the average American mother of a teenage boy, many of them may be surprised that Jordan Davis’ mother has said publically that she has forgiven Michael Dunn for killing her son over loud music. 
But this is what Jesus is telling us that we should do, love our enemies and pray for those who we would rather not love. It’s a hard task to contemplate and an even harder one to carry out.  In fact, it would probably be much easier to be a good Lutheran and respond to Jesus by saying “well, that’s interesting, Jesus…but to be honest, we’ve never done it THAT way before.”
But if we take a look at the bigger picture, here, like in the rest of the sermon on the mount, Jesus is calling us into kingdom living.  A way of life in which we do radical things in response to the love of God.  And if we look at it this way, it is possible to suggest that Jesus is not telling us that we should pray that we may return to a relationship with those who persecute us in hopes of reconciliation, but rather that we forgive, and by doing so, release our persecutors and enemies from their ability to hurt us.  When we forgive, our enemies might not be changed, but we will be changed for the better.
Being a follower of Jesus isn’t an easy thing to do.  And to be fair, Jesus never said it would be.  However, amidst the difficulties and the struggle to be good disciples and to live lives following in Christ’s example, there is also amazing blessing.  When it seems that the world is crumbling around us, we have a call and a challenge to be agents of love and forgiveness.  Love and forgiveness that bring freedom, for ourselves and for those around us.  And, though we are not perfect and sometimes we need help engaging in this kind of living, we can always look to the cross and there we will see an innocent man beaten and bruised praying these words for his persecutors:  “father, forgive them, they know not what they are doing.” May Christ’s example empower us to peacefully stand against injustice, to love those that we find the hardest to love, and to look beyond the letter of the law to find the radical nature of God’s love for the world. Amen.     


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